Intimate Partner Violence
What is happening is not your fault.
Reaching out takes enormous courage, especially when you've been made to feel like you don't deserve help, or that what's happening isn't "that bad." It is. You do. And we're here, without judgment, whenever you're ready.
You might be here because:
Your partner criticizes, humiliates, or isolates you
You feel controlled, monitored, or walking on eggshells
You've been hurt physically or sexually
You're afraid of your partner's anger or reactions
Financial control is being used against you
You're not sure if what's happening counts as abuse
You feel confused, ashamed, or like it's somehow your fault
If any of this resonates, you're not alone, and you deserve support.
Abuse is rarely what it looks like in the movies
Intimate partner violence is often misunderstood. It's not always physical. It can be emotional manipulation, financial control, isolation from loved ones, constant criticism, threats, or sexual coercion. It can happen in any relationship, regardless of gender, age, sexuality, or how things look from the outside.
"You don't have to have bruises to deserve help. Abuse that leaves no visible marks is still abuse."
One of the most disorienting parts of an abusive relationship is that it rarely starts that way. There are often moments of genuine love, tenderness, and hope, which makes it incredibly hard to make sense of what's happening. This push and pull is by design, and it is not a reflection of your weakness or your worth.
Whether you are still in the relationship, recently out, or processing something from years ago, healing is possible. And it starts with one safe conversation.
Understanding Intimate Partner Violence
This is not
your fault
No matter what you've been told, nothing you did caused this. Abuse is a choice made by the person causing harm, not a consequence of your behaviour..
Your safety
comes first
Everything we do is guided by your safety and your choices. We will never pressure you into any decision, including leaving..
Staying is
complicated
There are many reasons people stay in harmful relationships, love, children, finances, fear, hope. We understand all of them and we won't judge any of them.
Healing is Possible
Healing doesn't mean forgetting or "getting over it." It means finding a way to carry your loss while still being able to live and love fully.
How we help:
Counselling that centers you
Our approach is trauma-informed, non-directive, and guided entirely
by your needs and your safety. There is no agenda
here except your wellbeing.
Safety Planning
Whether you are still in the relationship or have recently left, we can help you think through safety, for yourself and your children, in a way that feels manageable and realistic.
Trauma-Informed Therapy
Intimate partner violence leaves deep marks on the nervous system, on self-worth, on the ability to trust. We use trauma-informed approaches to help you heal at a pace that feels safe.
Rebuilding Self-Worth
Abuse systematically erodes your sense of self. Therapy helps you reconnect with who you are, what you deserve, and what a healthy relationship actually feels like.
Processing & Grief
Leaving or even just acknowledging an abusive relationship involves real grief. We hold space for all of it, the anger, the sadness, the confusion, and the love.
Understanding the Cycle
Making sense of what happened, the patterns, the dynamics, the why is a powerful part of healing. We help you understand without ever placing blame on you.
Moving Forward
When you're ready, we support you in rebuilding healthy relationships, healthy boundaries, and a life where you feel safe, grounded, and like yourself again.
Why Choose us?
A Safe Space
No referral needed
Book directly with us
No Pressure, Ever
We will never tell you what to do or push you toward any decision. Our role is to support you wherever you are and whatever you choose.
Free 15 minute consultation
See if we’re a good fit before booking
Trauma Informed
Our therapists understand how Intimate partner violence affects the mind and body. Every session is grounded in safety, trust, and your pace.
Virtual Available
All of Alberta. If coming in person doesn't feel safe or accessible, virtual sessions are available across Alberta.
We Believe You
You will not have to prove anything here. We start from a place of believing your experience and honouring your story — always.
In-person Available
We are located in Beacon Hill, Calgary NW
What working with us looks like:
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Contact us by phone, email, or our booking form, whichever feels safest. You don't need to have the right words. Just reaching out is enough.
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A 15-minute phone call to connect, ask questions, and make sure we're the right fit. No commitment, no pressure.
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Your first session is yours entirely. We create a safe, judgment-free space where you can share as much or as little as you feel comfortable with.
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Together we work toward safety, clarity, and healing, at your pace, guided by your needs, and always centrered on your wellbeing.
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Slowly and gently, we help you reconnect with yourself, your voice, your worth, and your right to a life that feels safe and fully your own.
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No. You do not have to have any plan to leave, or even be sure about what you want. Counselling is available to you at any stage whether you're still in the relationship, recently out, or years removed. We meet you where you are without judgment.
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Abuse takes many forms, emotional, psychological, financial, sexual, and physical. There is no minimum threshold. If something in your relationship has made you feel unsafe, controlled, or diminished, you deserve support. Full stop.
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This is incredibly common and completely understandable. Having feelings for someone who has hurt you does not mean you are weak or that the abuse wasn't real. We work through this with compassion, not judgment.
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Your privacy is our priority. We can discuss safety planning around your sessions.
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No referral is needed. You can contact us directly and confidentially. If you'd prefer to reach out by email before booking, we welcome that too.
Your questions, answered:
Meet our Therapists
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Uzma Mehreen
Registered Social Worker
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Marlies Wester
Registered Provisional Psychologist
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Book a free 15 minute consultation
You deserve to feel safe.
Whenever you're ready or even if you're not quite sure, reaching out is a brave and important step.
If you know you're ready, you can book your free 15-minute phone consultation directly through our online booking, it's quick and easy.
Can't find a consultation time that works for your schedule? Email the therapist of preference directly and we'll make it happen.
Not sure who to book with, or just want to reach out first? Fill out the form and we'll take it from there, matching you with the therapist who feels like the right fit for what you're going through.
And if navigating the booking site feels like one thing too many right now, that's okay too. Just reach out and we'll handle the booking for you.
We’re here when you’re ready.